Stress from 1 - to 5 STAR, or "Losing one's mind". That Triangle will topple! Too much to bear.
Violence against others or SELF, will not solve this problem But maybe it gives us a feeling of control? .. at a time when we feel a complete LOSS of any control over our life, or our family and friends well being. Hearing the ongoing nonsense Social Media competitiveness re curing boredom .. is enraging to those truly struggling! Sometimes in wondering how "they" got so lucky in life, our resentment can turn to wanting revenge. This is when civil unrest begins. So please check the formula below that saved me .. a few times!
The 5 STAR STRESS can also include Levels 1 and 2 stress on top of the Rent due terror! .. and what if that poor soul is also teaching kids! People can NOT withstand this amount of stress on stress!! For most of us, this much stress is not humanly possible to bear, especially ALONE. The epidemic of violence, (Lashing out or Inward, because of LOSS OF HOPE), will be far worse than corona was. Check Victor Frankl's, "Man's Search for Meaning" .. how does one maintain HOPE in a Concentration camp?? .. amazing)
Our success formula .. how we survive jobless stress now..
.. AND THEN CREATE AN EVEN BETTER LIFE AFTER COVID
Hopefully these 12 Resources, that we can build on, can help you through this cataclysm as well. Between thoughts of suicide and even "raging resentment, mass murder", a few times .. just the first 2 brought me back from the edge. The Dream of building a NEW FAIR Community "System" again felt possible, with having some shred of HOPE restored. The 12 Resources are explained more, further below. (Plus there will be a detail link to each eventually). They will also be developed further into a grouping of 3 ideas (the symbolic Triangle?) .. maybe less overwhelming than 12 things to consider? Remember, it is the first 2, even the first 5 .. that are the Life Savers. Those can be done immediately, though definitely difficult. The rest we will LONG be working on, but together as a connected group which makes it easier.
1) Faith, or Belief giving us hope
2) Take back control .. breathe, develop mind control. DON"T THINK ABOUT IT!
https://www.inc.com/amy-morin/10-signs-you-think-too-much-and-what-you-can-do-about-it.html
3) Take back Personal Responsibility .. (and actually THINK more too!)
4) Give respect .. to your SELF, others, and our planet.
5) Focus our attitude .. all positive thoughts .. AND WORDS!
NO blaming others, NO yelling at yourself, just "I CAN do it, I CAN do it!"
Whether you like the idea or not ..
THERE IS A SCIENTIFIC LAW ABOUT THIS .. JUST LIKE GRAVITY. Wake up to it!
Just like the LAW of gravity .. You bring toward you what you focus on!
Also, we must change our subconscious UN-deservedness, that is SABOTAGING us.
6) Connection and belonging .. build Community (even if we are introverted!)
7) Build our Physical Health, take back CONTROL!
8) Remove ALL Toxins from our lives .. 4 types, (people too!)
9) Build Human Life Intelligence (not A I) .. Learn to THINK again.
10) take a "Personal Life Accounting" of your skills .. like a Business
11) Sharing our Resources = a new TRADE System, = our own REAL "economy"!
12) Re-SEARCH, investigate all Energy Vibrations .. new Resources for us
.. find these in more detail below.
how to create your own "job", and be your own nice boss.
Join a REAL "share community". We can change old unfair, TRADING only us and ethical big Businesses.
First .. Take back Personal Responsibility!
Taking control of our lives, means we need to take back personal responsibility. We gave that up, when we naively believed going in debt for an "education" would actually help us. (Yes, Banks and universities profit, but we all too often, get a job at Starbucks.) Let's Re-educate ourselves .. in what we truly need for our LIFE INTELLIGENCE and our own "success". ("success" as in a happy life, definitely NOT measured by wealth .. but YES, WE NEED TO PAY RENT! (Money) is not evil..
Gain back our Intelligence by RE-searching more .. and by "searching" with mindless artificial inte
Re locate your curiosity and imagination. The difficulties of paying rent in an "economy" of total insecurity make it hard to retain these useful resources. Start RE-searching topics that interest you. How could you make money from them? Who could use the expert knowledge you can easily retain? How could you charge for your service? Are the people who need you all Farmers, and you could get your food in return? Or would Fashion people need your help, who could make you nice clothes? Start Rethinking our old ways, that were not working even before covid. Be more creative and willing to take responsibility. Small Business gave many of us jobs, but we were often not respectful of their struggle to CREATE OUR JOB for us. (Giving a customer 8 napkins, and a double cup shows no respect for how difficult it is for the cafe to make profit ... that PAYS us our job!) THINK more!!
We have forgotten in the old New World, the Pioneers TRADED, to live not too badly. We don't need to be Pioneers for long, just until we create our own new "NEW World" Trading System. My Systems began as just a HEALTH concept with the Health Revolution (Processed food causes INFLAMMATION, the root of DIS-ease.). Down the road, Health Coaches will be a large part of our new transformed Health (not "care") System.
But why not have more Citizens involved in REAL RE-search in ALL topics? Like the old Encyclopedia on STEROIDS? Why can't we be paid to be total research experts with HUMAN Intelligence not useless A I? "Search" has made us stupid. We care more about instant convenience, than knowledge that creates HUMAN INTELLIGENCE. A I can never match real minds and souls curious to find as much TRUTH as is possible. HMM!? From different perspectives .. IS TRUTH even possible. Are there actually very many REAL Facts? Hopefully Mike Bloomberg will want to create an Encyclopedia on STEROIDS with us. He already did so for biz!
Study your personal skills, talents, expertise, joys. Those are RESOURCES, that others will PAY for!
This will take time and patience to investigate, analyze, and evaluate. I bet no one in so many years of "education" had you in any great detail take time to study YOURSELF? Even if you love and are happiest, cleaning or sweeping, or washing dishes singing out of tune, we need you! Some of us are impatient with these tasks. Every task .. even sweeping floors has just as much value as a CEO. He is just skilled in a different way. And sorry, if your mind is so single focused to be whining that I said "HE" .. GO! You can NOT be a member of this deep thinking TO SOLVE REAL PROBLEMS Community. I do not want your subscription money. There are millions of shallow sites on the web already to suit you.) Sorry, to the rest of you. EVERY job has value and deserves RESPECT, CEO's are not better and CERTAINLY do not deserve 100x our pay!
Maybe you are like Marie Condo and love organizing stuff. Think us disorganized messes would not pay well for your talent? Look how she became wealthy and known through her obsession! Find yours! .. to at least live a secure life!!
Barter these RESOURCES, until we set up our own TRADE SYSTEM. Today we can .. with BLOCKCHAIN!
The most exciting transformed "SYSTEM" will be setting up our Trade System. Everyone, floor sweeper to Researcher gets the same good living wage. BUT!! .. if you want to study more, work more, work late at nite or in a less safe job .. you get paid MORE. It is "Revised Capitalism" but you CAN have mansions and $100,000 cars. But nobody is starving or homeless, because FAIR taxes are paid!
Get others to join our Community so we can build a REAL Template location. From Digital to REAL.
You have connections, that I do not. My skill is researching and imagining problem solutions (as a quiet hermit, Librarian inventor, alone at my desk). Most people have more Team building skills than I do. With your skills and connections we can get your (decent) Corporate friends on Board. With Corporate (clients) we get the $ we will need for digital access, heat, water etc .. in our local Life Skills Community. Much we need we Trade, later with our own Trading System. A System that is "human" or just to all, yet does allow hard work to take you to another level. In "Reverse World", the least among us gets a decent Secure quality of life! The wealthy Corporates who join us will find their own quality of life improves. It is not MORE BILLIONS that creates joy .. but sharing with others does. (see "Secret Millionaire" and "Undercover Boss" old TV shows)
we need a raft.. to save us from thEsE turbulent waterS
This Crisis began as ..
1) A PHYSICAL Population Health threat that has evolved to ..
2) A Personal Financial Health threat, and now will be ..
3) A Great Population MENTAL Health threat ..
At least finally the stigma of Mental Health will be eradicated, if 80% of us are suffering from anxiety, and REAL physical depression or despair. So Let's learn some new coping skills together with the many feeling the same hopelessness as we ourselves do.
NO! we are NOT in this together! Such a shallow phoney group of words. Wealthy people have no clue of what no $ to pay rent feels like! Crowded conditions, perhaps lost TV and internet access, or maybe not even computer access, are no comparison to no longer being able to enjoy favourite 8$ cappuccino Cafes. All of us are stressed, but compared to EXTREME stress .. we are NOT "together".
Try being bored, but with no food, or the Landlord posting nasty messages on your door. Get lost you wealthy or at least people with no $ worries. You are NOT in this together with us. (I must put a "go fund us" page up for those wealthy who are still human and KIND.) Those of us struggling, have been losing jobs since full scale automation began, which now will only get worse.
But we have a plan! See below a new LIFE INTELLIGENCE RE-EDUCATION. And "they" will beg to be allowed into our awesome "economy" private "island". The tables will FINALLY turn.. IF .. we lowly masses stick together. (This Robin Hood plan is one where the 1% will WANT to be part of our community.)
a personal action formula, a raft, or re-education
Let's TRY to develop the following skills. Once bound together these RESOURCES become our RAFT.
It will be hard .. but we WILL all be struggling together. This TOTAL Health, LIFE INTELLIGENCE subscription is for those who know what REAL difficulty is., those who have dealt with hurdle after hurdle. But maybe no one reminded you how successful you have been to deal with the obstacles we "little people" must endure. "They" suggest we didn't work hard enough, or try hard enough. Completely untrue.
But, we were unfortunately not lucky enough to get the RESOURCES that they did .. and I am NOT talking money or an inheritance. Maybe we did inherit, but our inheritance was continuing the generational difficulties of our family. We never got the confidence and connections the 10% have .. and those are HUGE resources that we have to struggle without. No one mentions how incredibly valuable confidence and connections are. We just are considered irresponsible, whining victims, looking for handouts.
We will create a community where we all have great value and all contribute, and it can be better than what we had. If we stay calm and patient in this historic crisis..
Below are 12 resources we will work together on, to further develop. Some will be easy, some hard.
Some will even be very hard for us. But we can coach each other, trading the resource our character finds easy .. to help other members of our community that find the same thing very difficult. We will get to our REAL community "island" down the road, but meantime we use our digital "raft" to save us. Working together even on line, is easier than struggling alone.
First , Find your source of Faith or Hope
Without HOPE everything seems pointless. At this time it is very easy to fall into despair. Check back to the pages discussing Heaven or the possibility of science suggesting we may be moving ?into the "Fifth dimension"?
Recognize your own Value .. needed by our Community
Take control .. breathe .. develop "MIND CONTROL"
Adjust our attitude .. that better quality of life IS possible
Re-education-human intelligence, not Artificial Intelligence
Resources we must build on, to RE-create the "Hopeful" life ..
1) FAITH, or BELIEF and the HOPE IT GIVES US
First , find your source of Faith or Hope. Without hope, it is too hard to move on. We must feel there CAN be a better, easier life again. Also, we must be able to TRUST more. Every one of our systems has let us down. (That is .. if we are NOT one of the entitled elite, who had 1 or 2 jobs in a lifetime and now sit pretty with a good Pension and NO WORRY in the world).
We also need to be able to TRUST in our Societal Systems, more than we can today. Education does not educate, Heath "care" does not = Health, and a Justice System is often a perversion of justice. Quality no longer exists in products and it gets very frustrating re-buying everything so often. We need a whole scale System reset, everything needs to be TRANSFORMED.
2) TAKE BACK CONTROL .. BREATHE .. develop "mind control"!
Take control .. breathe .. develop the feeling that we CAN actually CONTROL our mind. (mindfulness and meditation for DUMMIES). This will allows us to feel less stressed, giving us a tool to feel in control, more calm to think clearly.
Years ago, I was shocked to wake up to a huge new simple tool , that I got from a new 'old neighbour'. I will for that reason never forget him. Remembering to use it though is still a struggle. (Why our share community will be great .. to remind each other what we forget.) I was sharing that when I think about ... I feel so sad. He said "just don't think abut it". I was floored "You mean I don't have to .. think about it (ie feel Quilty?" Wasting energy in your head solves no problem. If you can do something to reverse the guilt .. do it. But wasting energy sad in your head helps no one, and destroys energy you could use being NICE to someone.
3) TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY .. THINK MORE!
Let's use our CONTROL SYSTEM to take back control of our BRAIN, and again use it to THINK! (Processed Food (sugar), EMF's, "search" etc have destroyed our brain, reducing it to shallow un-inteligence. And stick to JFK's words long forgotten, "ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country." We can create our own job for our Reset "country". Today, we can create our own community with our own rules and sharing of resources. But .. we must take back Personal Responsibility if we want to TAKE BACK CONTROL. of our lives and Systems that no longer serve us.
4) GIVE RESPECT .. OUR "ONE COMMANDMENT"
a) to self .. recognize our own Value .. to create self esteem, self confidence
b) respect to others .. including small business offering us jobs
c) respect to the ENVIRONMENT of community, Region AND Planet (if not already too late?)
5) FOCUS OUR ATTITUDE .. ALL POSITIVE THOUGHTS and words
Positive thought gets positive result .. it is a Quantum LAW like gravity! But .. subconscious lack of self respect will negate that amazing magnetic force! Let's stop sabotaging our own success and recognize and BELIEVE that we too deserve!
6) CONNECTION and BELONGING .. Build Community
everyone needs to feel valued, respected, and loved though a feeling of belonging.
In our reverse world community, we each feel valued and in turn give others a feeling of being valued and respected.
7) BUILD OUR PHYSICAL HEALTH .. perhaps the most important resource?
maintain nutritious food, water, sleep and exercise. Learn all the findings of the new Health Revolution, the biome and inflammation triggers .. vs Traditional Medicine .. disease name = drug! RE-search your own body problem areas. After being a Detective investigating your body inflammation triggers, you can control your health! Then with your Health INTELLIGENCE you can become a Health coach. We can transform Health "care" .. to REAL Health, not "care".
8) REMOVE TOXINS FROM OUR LIVES ..
a) chemicals, no processed food, move away from toxic plants or factories.
b) wifi, EMF's RE-search
c) Tech ADDICTION! STOP with the "FACE IN PHONE" you "sheep ant"!
d) Toxic People, even Family .. respect yourself, not accepting Emotional abuse
9) BUILD LIFE INTELLIGENCE .. Broaden our RE-search
Now use the RE-search skills learned to build Health INTELLIGENCE, and become the Intelligence and Knowledge source expert in whatever area you love. There are areas of life that so fascinate us we can "work" all day and it felt like fun. BUT .. not some shallow area we have become so good in today. Not You tube binging or instagram competing in the best "whatever" experience or thing! That competition makes the Internet a BULLY place. And the shallowness is another reason we are stupid!
10) PERSONAL "LIFE ACCOUNTING" .. evaluate our skills and talents .. link
Like a Business our life has liabilities but also ASSETS. Our life ASSETS are our Skills, Expertise, Talents, character tendencies that others are missing. We can TRADE those! Often we think only about our liabilities or failings. While we work to reduce our Liabilities (anger, guilt, etc) .. let's think more about our ASSETS or resources. We tend to forget those. Nor were we taught much about this in our "education". Let's investigate who we are, what we love doing, or are good at. Those are assets we have forgotten others need. We can build a new Trading system, outside $$. We can build a TRUE SHARE ECONOMY. So really put hard work into this study of YOU.
11) COLLABORATE AND SHARE .. RESOURCE MANAGEMENT
Our liabilities deplete our Assets or Resources. Let's respect ourselves more and do less wasting of our time an energy on past guilt or future worry! Easy to say .. hard to do .. but we will coach each other. ANYTHING is easier with a support system! Now .. if we take the list of our Personal Assets and share what is easy for us with others who CAN"T DO OUR SKILLS, we have developed the basis of a REAL share "economy". We will have to begin like Pioneers, not giving our scarce "old world" $ away so easily. But our "Reverse World" includes a system that Corporations will WANT to be part of. Although the innovation is a "Robin Hood Mission" for us to create REAL not digital communities .. Fortune 500's will WANT to be Partners.
12) RE-"SEARCH" OTHER ENERGY VIBRATIONS .. Investigate new intelligence
Lei Lines, crystals, geographic and historic vibration fields, astral, and quantum energy fields and vibrations. Wherever you become an expert, you can save others time. Time is traded for expertise as we build a new Encyclopedia "system" of Careers. The Encyclopedia od INTELLIGENCE will be subscription based and provide personal income for its many experts. The early Internet (music ?) should never have been FREE. People need to pay rent and eat in return for their talent.
People not PROFIT .. are the World Community's greatest ASSET.
Human INTELLIGENCE, beats Artificial "Intelligence" any day or time.
We can create new jobs with an INTELLIGENCE ENCYLOPEDIA on Steroids.
With segmented monthly Subscription fees for various topic areas, our Encyclopedia will provide ongoing Personal Income for Expertise Contributors.
FREE is what created the Dystopian Internet. People need to be paid for their skills expertise and talents. FREE is how advertising took over. Our members create a TRUE SHARING RESOURCES COMMUNITY .. REVERSE WORLD.
Take back personal responsibility for ourselves
5) TAKE RESPONSIBILITY .. first we gave up common sense and logic, and then we expected laws to protect our every move, like parents used to. Let's get back to JFK "Ask not whet your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country".
Build connection and belonging by investing the time required
6) CONNECTIONS and BELONGING .. site celebrity, or other event? Be sure to announce it so everybody knows and gets excited about it.
7) EAT FOR HEALTH you on social media? Share their great stories to help turn potential customers into loyal ones.
8) SLEEP, EXERCISE AND REMOVE TOXINS e or weekly special? Definitely promote it here to get customers excited about getting a sweet deal.
9) REGAIN INTELLIGENCE location, redesigned your shop, or added a new product or service? Don't keep it to yourself, let folks know.
10) ACCOUNTING OF RESOURCES ns, you have answers. Display the most frequently asked questions, so everybody benefits.
11) CREATE PERSONAL INCOME find it, it doesn’t exist. Clearly list and describe the services you offer. Also, be sure to showcase a premium service.
12) INVESTIGATE ENERGY FORMS celebrity, or other event? Be sure to announce it so everybody knows and gets excited about it.
Advice to myself, i wish i would take!!
How do we learn to be smarter/nicer to ourselves? Guess everyday we keep trying, without hating on.
Principles can sometimes RUIN your life .. We judge not just others but ourself ..
Don't stick to an "I'm right, you are mean" when it ONLY harms you!
That corner/food store is very handy. never returning Bec treat customers crap .. only hurts me. will never go out of way .. but if needed my not spending 5$ there every few weeks will NOT put them out of business.
Tango company jerk face barista mass murder story .. that place looks PHENOMENAL! Never returning misses the experience the owner tried to create. Maybe his employee was having an extra bad day. As T said people are on edge!!
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Other ideas ..
Articles – Good topics for articles include anything related to your company – recent changes to operations, the latest company softball game – or the industry you’re in. General business trends (think national and even international) are great article fodder, too.
Mission statements – You can tell a lot about a company by its mission statement. Don’t have one? Now might be a good time to create one and post it here. A good mission statement tells you what drives a company to do what it does.
Company policies – Are there company policies that are particularly important to your business? Perhaps your unlimited paternity/maternity leave policy has endeared you to employees across the company. This is a good place to talk about that.
Executive profiles – A company is only as strong as its executive leadership. This is a good place to show off who’s occupying the corner offices. Write a nice bio about each executive that includes what they do, how long they’ve been at it, and what got them to where they are.